In Her Own Words
About Her
Before I get into who I am... I need you to understand ask yourself these questions and be honest with yourself.
Are you addicted to drugs or alcohol? If the answer is yes, please don't contact me.
Are you someone that frequents gambling establishments? If it is yes, I am not one for wasting my money and gambling is not date appropriate. I don't mind if you enjoy it. I just don't
You need to have a strong personality because I have a very strong personality and I don't need a pushover in my life.
If you don't understand how a dominant man should operate, please google and find out the difference between controlling your partner in a negative way and being dominant towards your partner. Trust me I know the difference.
I am an honest, loving, kind fun Mom of two boys. I use term boys but my oldest is 20 and my youngest is 11. They live with me, and you need to be able to accept that. They are well mannered and raised right.
I am sometimes brutally honest, and this is not because I want to hurt anyone, but I don't believe in hurting people and stringing them along.
I don't play games with people. However, I will play card and board games but not with your heart.
I was brought up very independent and believe that you work for everything you want in life but I want someone to be my partner and complete my happy home and I want to complete him.
If I just wanted a quick hookup, I could have gone and swiped right or left on that other site.
I work hard every day and on weekends I want to do everything and nothing at the same time.
Dancing, live shows or simply a drink at the local hangout is always welcome, but a braai with friends is always a winner.
Physical attraction is important, and I believe when you meet your person you will know.
Listen I can tell you everything you think you might want to hear but talking to someone and getting to know them is the only way you will know for sure.
About Her Ideal Match
Don't judge me just based on my words about myself. I am just very honest
A good sense of humor is very important because if we can't laugh together, it will never work.
You don't have to be the best dancer but having a few moves will count in your favor. Enjoying music is a must.
I probably don't have to say it, but liking braai with friends and family is really important.
You must be loyal, honest and respectful.
You don't need to be serious the whole time. I promise I will make you laugh. Be willing to be silly and playful.
If you like what you have read contact me, if you don't dare you won't win.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Boksburg (Financial Director), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Centurion; Cullinan; Pretoria; Benoni; Boksburg; Kempton Park; Alberton; Bedfordview; Edenvale; Germiston; Midrand; Modderfontein; Randburg; Sandton; Heidelberg; Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 57 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Romance |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Music Channels; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Photography; Reading; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket; Dancesport; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Motorsport; Rugby; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Fish; Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Power |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using OFM Love Online: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
